Pat Benage, TLC Coaching: Helping You Create A Soulful Life

Transform Your Life Workshop

Just this year I began doing my Transform Your Life workshop and I have to say it's been an amazing experience for me! I just love the energy that comes from immersing myself into this process with a group of people eager to create change in their lives. I actually feel more energized at the end of the workshop than I was at the beginning! That's simply a result of my love for doing it and the wonderful energy the participants bring.


Transform Your Life

We are all changing, all the time. The question we must ask ourselves is,

"Is the change we're seeing, the change we really want?"

If not, then why not? I suggest that it's because we don't really have a clear idea of what we want. I believe it's a result of having a conflict between what we think we want and what we really want!

The goal of this workshop is to reconnect you with your soul and build upon that relationship with self so you become balanced and harmonious within yourself. This is a place from which you can create whatever life experience you desire. You will receive plenty of tools and techniques for putting concepts into practice as well.

My Transform Your Life workshop is a complete program designed to help you create your own version of a soulful life. Whether you attend one of my live events or choose the digital version, this powerful 7 step program will enable you to create life-long change, improve all your relationships, let go of negative thinking, have a positive outlook no matter what shows up, and experience balance and harmony in your life.

I found there to be 7 distinct steps involved in the transformation process and we cover each one in depth during this workshop. These steps are universal in nature. Though others may call them by different names, my research has shown me that anyone having gone through a significant change in his/her life, has done so through these 7 steps. The process may not be complete for them, but the progression is consistent everytime.

So, what are the 7 steps?


Know Your Self

This first step is all about building a foundation by connecting with your true self. We all have roles that we play in life and often times we get lost in those roles. We begin to identify ourselves as the roles we play rather than as who we really are. In the process, we get off track, out of balance. It's subtle at first, but over time we begin to wonder how we got to this point in our lives.

If you're reading this now, you've probably been experiencing some of this in your own life. You are probably dealing with some issues that just seem to keep showing up and you're at a loss as to how to get past them. Or, perhaps, you feel as though you have just gotten way off track and now you're ready to do whatever it takes to find your way out.

Regardless of your particular circumstances, if you're here, you are looking for more joy, more peace and more love in your life. Am I right? You want to feel a purpose to your life, that your life means something. We all want those things and yet most of us live our lives out never taking the time to really explore life in a way that brings us to our true purpose. Getting to know your self, deeply and intimately, is the key to becoming your best you.

During this 4 hour module you'll reconnect with who you really are and begin the process of remembering what's important for you. Yes, it's about remembering because you already know all you need to know about your life. Problem is, you don't remember what you really want and you don't remember how to remember! So we'll spend some time in this first workshop reminding you of what you already know, but have forgotten.

We will use several exercises to get you started on the road back to you. You will come away with tools you can use to continue the process throughout your life. This is not a quick fix, but rather a long lasting process for transforming your life. If you apply what you receive in my Know Your Self module, you will create the solid foundation on which you can build a fabulous life, your best life!

Accept Your Life

Acceptance is the key to getting your life moving forward. If you are stuck or experiencing recurring challenges in your life, it is most likely due in part to your unwillingness to accept your life as it is. This doesn't mean you have to be satisfied with your life, only that you accept that it is what it is and that you have created it this way as the perfect platform from which to grow and evolve.

Accept Your Life is designed in such a way that you will begin to see how you got where you are and how, since you got yourself into this, you can get yourself right back out! Acceptance is also about responsibility and we will explore how you can accept responsibility for your circumstances without the burden of blame or guilt about it. When you accept responsibility you free yourself to move forward, but when you place blame or feel guilty you only keep yourself mired in whatever muck you've stepped in.

This workshop offers a great deal of insight into how emotions can affect our growth and evolution as human beings. Emotions are neither good nor bad, but they are a powerful force in our lives and it's important to recognize the degree to which you allow them to control our choices. It's your choices that create your experience and this workshop will help you understand how your choices have led you to where you are and how they can lead you wherever you wish to go.

Once again, this module will bring you many tools you can take with you to continue the process of transformation. You'll begin the process of releasing blame, guilt and shame in order to make room for growth. We'll start creating an atmosphere in your life that allows you to blossom and grow, no longer burdened by the weight of past "mistakes". Acceptance really is the engine that gets you moving forward rather than being focused on, and stuck in, the past!

Trust Life

The old saying is that truth will set you free, but what I've found more powerful is TRUST! Trusting in life, in yourself, in a higher power, in really all things is the real catalyst for setting you free. Knowing that life and all that it entails actually works for your benefit, and an acceptance of this idea, leads you to a place of trust and really does set you free to follow your most intimate dreams!

That's a simple concept, but not really that easy to bring forth in your life. How do you get to a point where you can really trust life and everyone, everything in it? Well, that's why it's the 3rd step and not the 1st. It's critically important that you've gone through the process of building your foundation and of accepting and taking responsibility for your life as it is right now. Being able to see how your life experiences have come about and having some perspective to see that you've come out of your challenges stronger than before is vital for feeling safe and secure.

My Trust Life Workshop will take you through some of your most challenging moments in order to see how they have benefited you. You will experience a whole new view of these times in your life and a renewed appreciation for your own strength and ability to overcome. You will learn you are much more capable than you may have thought previously. You'll  begin to even feel thankful for the challenges you have faced and, more importantly, you'll start to welcome new challenges like never before!

Live Honestly

There may not be anything that feels more threatening or creates more fear in us than the idea of being completely open and honest. We all are basically honest people on the surface, but we also all have parts that we keep to ourselves, we hide these from the people in our lives. This is not a judgment of that practice, but as we begin to accept ourselves and trust life this fear begins to subside and we are able to open up.

The degree to which you are able to open up and be totally honest in your life directly influences your level of happiness! The reason this is true is because whenever you hide any part of yourself or are less than authentic in your dealings with life, you suppress your true nature and, by doing so, suppress your joy! As you open up, you express your true nature and, by doing so, you express your joy, you let it out!

In this 4th module, Live Honestly, we'll explore areas of your life where you are being less than authentic. We will discuss what it means to be truly honest in your life. I don't like the term "brutally honest" and so I use the phrase "compassionately honest" instead. This means that you express your truth with the intent to be of benefit not only to yourself, but to all those present.

You will have the opportunity to practice compassionate honesty as part of this workshop in an environment that's safe and non-judgmental. It is important to feel safe and secure in order to truly open up, so anything you share will be kept absolutely confidential. Having the chance to express your truths, particularly ones you may have kept silent for a long time, is vitally important to your transformation.

Additionally, you'll take my Transparency Test, designed to assess your transparency factor and give you an indication of how open you are in your life.

Live Consciously

In order to create the transformation you wish to experience, you must begin living life more consciously. What the heck does that mean?! Well, most of us live our lives only partially conscious at any given moment of what we're really doing, let alone why we're doing it! If you wish to change your life, you have to begin thinking about all that you do and why you're doing it. This requires a great deal of effort, especially at first, but it pays huge dividends in the long run.

My Live Consciously module will explore how our minds work and how we can easily fall into habits that don't serve us. More importantly, we'll discuss effective ways to use our minds to modify or eliminate those behaviors that don't serve us and to incorporate new behaviors that align with our true desires. You will be exposed to tools and techniques that will help you become a more conscious person in every aspect of your life.

The mind strives for efficiency, that is its nature, but that's not necessarily what is best for you. When it comes to getting dressed, brushing your teeth or some other everyday task it's not necessary to think about every detail of what you're doing. However, your mind tries to utilize the subconscious and the unconscious parts of the mind for all activities because they are more efficient. More efficient does not mean more effective!

Living consciously is not only about being conscious of the choices you make about what you do, but also about the choices you make about what you think. You have to think about your thoughts and where they come from, whether they align with who you truly wish to be. We will explore how your thoughts influence and affect your choices and how you can control what you think.

Share Your Self

At some point in your transformation process you have to be your "new" self with other people in your life. You can know your self to be different but until you experience how it feels to be different, the transformation is meaningless. You have gone through the process of getting to know your self and accepting your life. You've decided to trust life and begun to live honestly and openly. You're being conscious of what you think, say and do. So, what is this sharing your self all about?

Everything up until now can be done with little or no interaction with others in your life. Particularly for those of you who are single and living alone. That was my own personal experience of this process. Except for when my kids were with me I was pretty much by myself during much of this process. Sure, I went to work and had some interaction with others there, but I kept pretty much to myself most of the time. But, as I reached a point in my transformation where I was feeling happier, stronger, more confident with the person I was becoming, I felt the desire to find others with whom I could interact and connect.

It's during this phase that my transformation actually moved into high gear! All of the work I'd done was beginning to really pay off. Experiencing myself in a whole new way as I talked and connected with people in my life, validated all that I'd done and continued to do. It gave me the extra confidence and motivation to keep expanding and growing.

This module will be even more interactive than the previous ones as we'll explore the progress we've made and really get to know each other in a deeper way than we may have ever shared before. We will each have the opportunity to express who we are and to experience ourselves as being this new, grander version of ourselves!

Love Unconditionally

When we love without conditions we are truly expressing who we are. This is our truest nature and is the core energy that makes up all that we are. So to love, unconditionally, is to express and to be completely and utterly, who and what we are! I can't think of anything more worthy of celebration, can you?

Really, this is simply a natural progression of all that we've worked on up until this moment. Having gone through all the exercises and experiences in our first 6 modules we've grown and evolved to a place where to be less than unconditional love simply doesn't feel right. We're beginning to recognize, to be distinctly aware of, those moments when we are being less than who we are. This is a huge step in our evolution and an indication that our transformation process is working.

In this module we'll discuss what unconditional love means to each of us and through our sharing, understand its meaning more deeply. We will also have the opportunity to offer and receive unconditional love through a couple of exercises I will take you through.

Once finished with this module, and therefore the 7 Steps, you'll find yourself forever changed. Nothing will be the same as it was before. Those things and people in your life that were truly special before will feel even more amazing now. Those things that really bugged you about life will seem so much less important and may even disappear completely. Your relationships will feel so much richer and more vibrant to you. Your view of life will be so much clearer, enhanced really, because of the work you have done.

For anyone who completes the entire series and is not thrilled with the results, I offer a full, unconditional money back guarantee! If you're unhappy for any reason, just let me know at the end of the workshop and I'll gladly refund every penny!

Digital Version Available Now!

Get your copy of my Transform Your Life Workshop now and get immediate access to the 1st Module - Know Your Self! The rest of the modules will be sent to you, one at a time, every 4 weeks with detailed instructions for how to utilize the information to create the life of your dreams! Your own unique Soulful Life!

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First of all, let's get the cost out of the way. My digital version is $333 and includes over 20 hours of video instruction doled out over the course of 6 months. That's only about $15 per hour of instruction. An unbelievable value when you consider it's my ABSOLUTE BEST STUFF your getting here!

This easy to follow and implement program includes all 7 modules which are individually delivered directly to your email inbox - one every 4 weeks. This allows you to integrate each step without feeling overwhelmed by so much information.

Each module includes detailes instructions not only for how to approach the work, but also how to incorporate and integrate it into your life. Everything you need to create the change you desire for your life is right here.

In addition, you'll receive email correspondence every week from me that will offer tips and additional insights to help you incorporate this life changing process more easily and effectively. I am 100% dedicated to helping you achieve your goals!

If that's not enough for you to get started, keep reading because I'm not through adding value to this outstanding program! Everyone who purchases my TYL Digital Workshop will also receive these great bonuses!


A FREE copy of my e-Book, Cure Your Depression.
That's an additional $7.77 value.


A FREE copy of my book, Being, Inspired: Finding Answers.
Retail value is $16.95.


A 6 month subscription to my Soulful Living Video Series.
At $7.77 per month that's a $46.62 value.


All these bonuses above are included even if you decide at the end of Module 7 that you didn't find my TYL Workshop of benefit and want a full refund! That's $71.34 worth of FREE BONUSES just for giving this a try!

BUT, if you do decide there's real value here

~and if you're really committed to creating change for yourself, I'm sure you will~

and you stick with it through the whole 6 months, I have one more exciting bonus set aside for you.



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Transform Your Life Workshop!

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That's almost $600 in bonuses I'm including with my TYL Digital Workshop, but

Yes, Here It Comes!


THERE IS A CATCH!


I'm limiting this offer to the first 500 people who buy this new program. After that I'll be closing down sales for at least 6 months while I survey everyone and determine what, if any, modifications would be beneficial for version 2.0!

You see, I'm constantly utilizing feedback I get from my clients to create an ever more effective and useful program to help you achieve all that you desire. Just like everything in life, it evolves and grows and becomes even better! Life doesn't stand still and I choose to change and evolve and TRANSFORM with it!

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Go ahead, click on the BUY NOW button below and you'll be directed to PayPal where you can pay with your own PayPal account or with a credit card. I look forward to serving you and helping you become the person you truly wish to be!